They say you can't go home again and they're right... but who says you can't go visit?



Saturday, July 31, 2010

Party's over

Well, it's over.



At the outset it was awkward, meeting with folks with often-familiar names and occasionally-familiar faces (sometimes from the then-and-now pages on the reunion website). But as the events went on it was sometimes having old memories come up, sometimes being reminded, and sometimes observing patterns of speech, expression and action still familiar over the decades, which peeled away the stranger in front of one to reveal the friend so long ago.


But even the "false positives," the ones you probably didn't know back then (and they were many with a class as large as ours) could become friends too.


Perhaps it's somewhat different for those who've attended all the 10th-year reunions and those who've had their own mini-reunions; they've followed each others' lives since. But even they encounter those who pop up as awkward long-lost stranger-friends.


Perhaps some old connections have been renewed and will remain. And there are still opportunities in tomorrow's informal events that some may attend: Catholic Mass in the morning and the Loons game in the afternoon.


But this may begin a somewhat bittersweet time for reflecting on old friends re-encountered. Perhaps, as several folks noted, this becomes more important as we advance in life with children grown and gone, thinking more on our own cultural roots. And there may be other reasons for looking back and re-connecting.


What we do as we leave may be as varied as we are, with reasons as varied. Some may go right back to their daily life. Some may desire a time of quiet and reflection before the world inevitably presses back in with its daily cares.


But this party is over. It has been a better time than I'd even hoped, but those who've followed the blog will understand I might need my own time for reflection. There is much to think about. The work e-mail can just wait until Monday, or since I will traveling home that day, Tuesday when I return to the office.


A big thank you to the MHS 40th Reunion Committee: Kathy Blake Schultz, Kris Clauss Harrison, Alan Cook, Ron Cook, Anne DeBoer, Lorie Eden Murphy, Nancy Humbyrd Hull, Kris Kivela Stoneburner, Barb Lowry, Nancy Nunemaker, Pete Poznak and Paul Sinclair!


Some have asked me about the future of this blog. It is certainly not done yet: if nothing else Kathy will become a guest poster on the blog; she certainly has a different perspective on Michigan and Midlanders. And I have a few photos to select, process, upload and share; I will let Paul Sinclair know when they are ready.


Safe travels.

Ev'rybody get together

Just a few photos from last evening's get-together at the Plymouth Park Pavilion.


When we arrived shortly after 6:30 the event was well underway.


As the evening went on more and more folks arrived -- and more difficult as it got darker, until somebody found the lightswitch (sometime after this picture was taken). The place was hopping by that time.


A group photo of the Eastlawn alumnae present. Kathy kept complaining it was difficult to get a good shot because we were acting like second-graders. But Kathy, it's Eastlawn Elementary!


I look forward to tonight's event.

Random notes

It seems we're not the only reunion in town. On checking in at the Hampton yesterday there was another couple here for the joint 30th (35th?) MHS&Dow reunion. Something happened to their plans but they're coming anyway and punting. Good for them and I hope it goes well.


Poked my head out a bit ago and it looks like the thunderstorms I saw in the forecast aren't here. So the golfing group should be having a good time. (It's not as early as it appears; the clock on this blog is set to Pacific time and it just might be confusing to adjust it now).


Visiting at the get-together last night was great fun -- especially when old memories started to revive above the "I remember your name" level. But memories can be awfully slow awakening from fourty years of slumber, so if I don't remember things at first please remind me.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Journey to the Heart of Midland

I think we made it to the heart of Midland today, though we actually got there by going back in time.


The morning started a bit slow due to a somewhat sleepless night at the hotel near DTW airport. But I had a plan laid out for the trip with several stops on the way. To facilitate the plan, I took the job as navigator while Kathy drove. (She thinks it would allow me to see more, but through most of it I either had my nose in the maps or was searching for landmarks while she was pointing out the sights.)


The plan was simple enough, to search out my three short-term residences and schools in Michigan prior to Midland. But it was complicated by my unfamiliarity with the roads in Detroit (after all, I have never driven in Michigan) and that in one case I only knew the street and in other I only knew the town, the school, and a hill. (From an earlier post: "it's the downhill slope associated in memory with my direct-drive pedal-to-wheel bike, and later on a friend's way-too-big three-speed. Sheer terror can do that to you.")


The location of the three dictated we take them in reverse order, starting with the most recent. The house was as I remember it but unsurprisingly the tall straight oaks that lined the street 50 years ago are gone, including the huge one that shaded our front lawn.


This turned out to be the easy stop. For the next I had no street address, though I found the block easily enough. But in the years that had passed since 1958 this brand-new development of small essentially identical houses, each with an identical sapling in the front yard, had all become quite individual and I suspect few of the sometimes-large trees shading the street started as those saplings.


The last was the worst. I could not identify our house and had to go locate my elementary school to orient myself. There I met the head custodian, who told me that the school is 60 years old (younger than Eastlawn Elementary) -- and that this was his very last day on the job; he is (now) retired. But from there I was able to backtrack and possibly identify this house, though the "hill of terror" seems have a slope rather less than most driveways.


But while this effort seemed on a downward spiral, not a positive auspice for the journey ahead, something else was happening: Kathy was growing to love Michigan. It started last night when a TSA guard expressed concern over Kathy's difficulty walking (muscle strain) and offered assistance. And at other steps along the way everyone she talked with was astonishingly friendly and helpful -- and she has lived many places around the world.


And the scenery too. She remembered that when I went to meet her parents in NW Connecticut I remarked often how much like Midland it looked (especially from living in California). She was learning what a number of people had said about Michigan lately: it's a beautiful state. Not with the grandeur, say, of our Olympics and Cascade mountains, but more quietly. And even in Detroit the hotel clerk said of Midland, "I have family there; it is beautful."


So we finally arrived in Midland, with just time to check in, get some beverages and food, and head off to the get-together where, once again she found a great group of folks.


It's not that Midland is perfect or the Garden of Even, but what we heard several times from other folks looking back was that it was a great place to grow up -- even if, once grown, the usual desire was to move away. At least until you had children of your own to raise.


With that I'm off tonight; we start touring tomorrow.

New eyes

Peering from the hotel room at the landscape nearby, terrain and vegetation, it is odd how it looks so familiar and yet strange, all at the same time. I have definitely been away too long.




I wonder if they will have nametags?

Thursday, July 29, 2010

In the hotel in Detroit

OMG, the shuttle took us past a Big Boy's. Haven't seen one of those in decades!

Off to the airport

We're on our way.

Last thoughts

It's 6:30 AM (PDT); in a few hours we'll be at the airport to begin our journey to Midland.

But as Kathy is beginning to understand, from my own personal perspective that probably nobody else shares, this is more than merely a visit and a time to reconnect with old friends. I've long been a bit envious of Christine Primrose, composer and singer of "Carlobhagh" (noted in Songs of home, pronounced roughly "Carlovag", BTW) -- her culture is threatened again with extinction, as it was a century and a half ago during the Clearances when my forebears left Scotland for America, and when all the "songs of home" started to be written, but it still exists. Unlike my (old) Midland. I have some "file drawers" (girlsinger) to close.

But whatever. My foremost plan is to have a good time reconnecting with old friends, and to introduce my world-traveling wife for the first time to the lovely land we know as Michigan and the wonderful people who inhabit(ed) it. Please give her your best Michigander greetings; she's a lot like us but doesn't know it yet.

Bill

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Relax and enjoy

Home from the office -- and not much to do. There is some trip prep that still needs to be done, such as printing boarding passes, maps and event schedules, but this will have to wait until Kathy gets home with new print cartridges.


But I also managed to dump a ton of stress today, three or four items that finally yielded and went "poof." A good thing because it was getting to the point where I might call the trip off even if I didn't come down sick before departure. Being ill while traveling is no fun at all.


So now I can rest, finish packing, sleep in in the morning and we can amble off to SeaTac airport tomorrow for a truly leisurely 1 PM PDT departure. (My domestic business trips almost always feature 6 to 7 AM departures which requires getting up sometime from 3 to 4 AM.) Sure we get into Detroit at 11 PM EDT but the hotel is next to the airport, we can sleep in again and make our Detroit-area stops, and still attend the Friday evening Plymouth Park event in good order.


But to my friends who have my(our) cellphone number(s), if something happens it looks like we'll have signal until we reach Midland, per the map below. And we're staying at the Hampton Inn.


Looking forward to this visit, after 42 years' absence. I'm now where I can relax and enjoy it.


Registration closes at midnight!

Check your e-mail; the MHS 1970 Reunion Committee sent an e-mail this morning (my time, PDT) with last minute reminders and details, dress codes and more.


Including the announcement that registration closes at midnight. Presumably EDT.


Something even some of my committees' heads regularly forget to mention when announcing teleconferences even though they have members across all 4 lower-48 time zones. International calls get tricker, especially around daylight-savings times, but there are sites to help.

No cell signal

So I blithely exchanged cellphone numbers with a few friends coming to the reunion, but something said I should check coverage. After all, a couple of weekends ago I spent several days 18 miles from the nearest signal. And sure enough, T-Mobile's coverage in Midland is not good.


Oh well.


Visit counter

The visit counter has been rolling up rapidly today. A lot of last-minute registrations?

Songs of home

Over lunch Sunday, discussing her researches into Midland (including a list of famous Midlanders including Fr. Tom Vaughn and Robert Jarvik), Kathy suddenly asked if it felt like things were slowing down as I was waiting to go. Thinking on it then I had to tentatively say yes; a few days later I'm rather less certain.


But that question brought to mind a song we learned in Gaelic class. Now there seems to be no end of Scottish songs about home (in both Scots and Gaelic) but there's one song rather a bit different from the rest: "Carlobhagh" (Carloway in the Hebrides, and I'm sorry but I'm not writing these in English orthography). For once the singer is actually going home and "Carlobhagh" is very well known for its refrain ending with "Aite mo ghaoil, tha mise dol ann." Literally this is "Place of my heart, I am going there [to you]," but much more emphatic.*


However, Kathy's question actually evoked a different line in this song of home, oddly not in the recording I have: "Greas ort 's cabhag, a' charaibhich na smuid" or "hurry up and hurry, you [slow] smoky train!" Such impatience seems almost un-Gaelic but there it is: the closer the singer gets the longer it seems to take, just as Kathy asked.


And no, that's not where I'm at. ("Patience: one of the seven deadly virtues," a friend once joked.) Sure, I am looking forward to going, seeing the old place, meeting old friends. But this is just a visit, after all.


* I note this article Does Language Influence Culture?. In Gaelic it does -- Gaelic expression can make accurate translation difficult. For simple examples: "I love you" is literally "there is love at me on you" (with varied emphasis), "I am sad" is "I am under my cares," "I am a piper" is "there is a piper in me."


Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Meeting old friends

I've had a few exchanges with old friends: if we don't connect Friday night we will probably do so later.


Unlike back then, we have cellphone numbers to exchange to make contact on the fly.


Sometimes technology really is positive.

Checklists

I was annoyed to check online with the airline Sunday, only to learn we didn't have seats on our flight from Salt Lake City to Detroit. I remember our options were quite limited because we were booking "award travel," burning frequent-flyer miles while they're still worth something, but Kathy called the airline yesterday and got us seats thanks to my frequent-flyer status. I think this is the first time I've ever flown using miles -- usually it's Kathy, other family, our priest or a friend. Check.


The hotels have been sending me notices about the upcoming stays. Need to print those out. Check. (Need new printer cartridges; noted.)


Haircut & beard-trim. (A month having passed since my last conference I was beginning to feel a bit shaggy.) Maybe it's time for new photos; I've been asked for one for an upcoming speaking engagement. Check.


Arrange a visit with Gwen. Trying to figure a time -- lunch on Saturday perhaps? Breakfast? To do.


Weather forecast... okay... Some rain, some thunderstorms. Rain I can surely deal with or I would not have lived in Seattle for 27+ years, though we get far too few thunderstorms here for either Kathy's or my liking. Umbrellas in the rollaboard: Check.

Monday, July 26, 2010

I wonder if it has air-conditioning?

Those who followed a link to my work blog (like Linda Fay [hmmm... I bet there's more to the surname] did) know that today I work in the general arena of air-conditioning and related control systems -- today these systems are all computers talking to computers; like most everything else, that thermostat on the wall has a computer behind it talking to others.


But I think back on my old schools. When I was there Eastlawn Elementary had an old hydronic (steam/water) radiator system that warmed us in winter but did nothing the rest of the year. I will never forget the impatience-provoking smell of "summer" wafting in through open schoolroom windows at the end of the school year.


And the problem the instant I was on summer vacation: "What do I do now? I'm bored!"


I have no such recollections for Central Intermediate, though I recall it had what are now called "operable windows" (which means you can open them). Midland High School: I'm simply not sure; I think they could be opened.


I am amazed that Eastlawn Elementary is still standing. Built right after WWII, I read somewhere, it's still there. Not a pretty building outside, though why they took out the tree(s) I do not know. In my memory the tree(s) softened its lines.


I'd love to get a tour of Eastlawn and Central, but in today's environment they'll probably be completely locked up.


But for Eastlawn, at least, I wonder if they've installed an HVAC system. A significant investment, but one that might indicate a desire at some point to keep using the building for some time to come.


OTOH if they've done so, today's kids won't smell the coming "summer" in the final hours of the school year. And that would be an experiental loss.


SCHOOL'S OUT!!!

Heat wave

I sure hope we won't have anything like this during our time back in Michigan. To be sure, I've lived so long in the Pacific Northwet that I think it's really hot when it gets above 80F, and the absolute finest weather on Earth is to be in the mid-50s with a light mist wafted to your face by a gentle breeze, but I remember summer days in Midland that were so hot and humid my friends and I would retreat to the basement to play. (And other days we spent at the now-gone pool.)


And it's also become odd to see a headline reading rained out at this time of year, right at the peak of Seattle's short dry season.


But the latter will serve as a reminder that I should prepare for the possibility of heat and/or rain. For the former at least A/C is standard in hotels and rental cars; don't have it in my car or house -- don't need it, and rarely even really want it.


But for rain, we have our umbrellas bought during a heavy downpour in a visit to NYC in 1999 and I will make sure we pack those. No self-respecting Seattleite uses an umbrella here (that's what our rain-shell/parkas are for) but my umbrella remains a part of my travel kit.


Just in case.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Registration extended (7/28)

Classmates, check your e-mail! A note went out this morning from the MHS 1970 Reunion Committee, with updates on registration, more informal activities and more. (It's not all on the website yet, but I image they're busy.)


Plus more photos!

Why a 40th?

As somebody noted to me last week, the 40th reunion is kind of an odd one. The 10th, 25th and 50th are obvious ones (are there others?), but the 40th just doesn't seem to fit a numerical pattern. Perhaps the organizers, or someone who has been to previous reunions can answer better, but it seems to me to fall to one of two reasons:


- 25 years without is a pretty long stretch, and/or


- At this age we're passing away more rapidly (per a WSJ article yesterday); there will probably be a lot fewer of us 10 years hence.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Maybe I was wrong

Haven't spent a lot of time searching since my earlier posting about Frank Lloyd Wright so my list remains empty. But I learned a bit more today at the bookstore.


From where I live it's 10 miles into town --5 to the nearest supermarket or gas station-- but I was already nearby for a church event, the latest Gardner Dozois annual SF anthology had just come out (reviewed in yesterday's WSJ!) and Border's had nicely sent me a 40%-off coupon, so I went into Redmond.


And there in the price-reduction pile was a huge book of Frank Lloyd Wright buildings -- but nothing in Midland was listed. Then I thought to peruse the Architecture shelves; two more books, one on homes and one on buildings. Again, nothing in Midland.


So maybe my memory of that library book I saw in 1990 is in error.

Friday, July 23, 2010

There's still time, I think...

I was really over at the Reunion site to see where things were. I know the team asked for all sorts of (optional) information upon registration, but I don't know where it's going, though it looks like something that might be given to attendees (who, if so, will learn a little about my daughters the engineers).


But it looks like there might still be time to register (online), since they don't have to give a full head count until Monday the 26th. And of course that's for Saturday evening's event; Friday evening's get-together is open to all.


Going to have to check maps to see where these events are.


But it is sad to see that the tour of the MHS building is canceled due to construction. If we can't get in, might there be some other event? It's probably pretty late for that, though.

Oh, no...

I just happened to look at the Deceased Classmates page and see that Nola Barnum is now on the list; she must have been added recently because I didn't note her name before. This is sad; I really liked Nola a lot. It's hard to reach across so many years (and her '68 yearbook photo, when she wore her hair quite a bit shorter, brings back more than this), but I remember her as very outgoing and friendly, even to a shy geek like me.


Requiescat in pace, Nola.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

T - 7 Days and counting...

One week from right now we should be taxiing to the runway in Salt Lake City (SLC) for the flight to Detroit -- not that I'm counting the time or anything like that. 172 hours to arrival.


Tickets were bought and hotels and car reserved weeks ago. Now the second stage of preparations begins, which is merely for me to get an appointment for a haircut and beard trim, it having been a month since the last and I don't want to show up looking like Santa Claus or worse. (I grew the beard when I entered grad school, a year before I met Kathy; she's never seen me without it -- this is A Good Thing!)


I should check the travel kit; I know the moustache pomade (Kathy's idea) container is low and I need to refill it. And put some sunblock along with mosquito repellent in it -- something I never carry because when away I spend most of my days holed up in meeting rooms.


Probably this weekend I'll get both cameras charged -- though I haven't even offloaded the Crater Lake photos for processing, and with the difficult lighting they're going to take a lot of work to get just right. I may even have to resort to a little "High Dynamic Range" processing. But here's a picture of Crater Lake taken Saturday, untouched except to scale it down (and yes, the water is that blue); if you click on it I think it will show a larger image.




And just for fun my all-time favorite, Strasbourg in September.




Hoping to bring back some great photos from Midland. They may have to last me a long, long time -- or at least until the Grand Michigan Tour. Kathy doesn't have the time off from work this time but she has also never been to Michigan. (Being stranded in DTW doesn't count.) I remember it as a beautiful state though my memories are way too old. But I have heard others who left more recently, or who visit from time to time, say the same. And there are so many places to see, among them:

- Houghton Lake

- Farwell (played with "Up With People" there in '67)

- Alpena (Boy Scout camp?) and some bay nearby

- Presque Isle (Camp Chickagamee? -- a woman in our church also went there!)

- Mackinac Island, Mackinaw City and the Bridge (a few years ago I learned from a new member of our church, a Yooper, that I'm a "Troll": I lived under the bridge)

- Traverse City (I never got there but wanted to go)

- the beaches on Lake Michigan

- Holland

- Kalamazoo ("Camp Farthest Out" at a college/university there?)

- Ann Arbor

- and a tour through the UP if time allows.


But that's all for another time. And preferably late May/early June, or late September/early October for the fall colors. We have fall colors in Seattle too, most years, but very very muted.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Skeeter bites!

One of the things I really like about the Pacific Northwet, or at least my tiny corner of it, is the absence of mosquitoes. If I see a dozen mosquitoes in a summer, it's a bad year. So far the count is 4, so it is looking like a fairly average year. But before you think this is heaven, we have spiders like you wouldn't believe -- come autumn there will be webs everywhere outside, with a harmless but big and very ugly spider in each.


And though the cool nights and frequent winds in the campground near Crater Lake last weekend kept their mosquito (and biting fly) population down, when it was hot and quiet I learned again the value of mosquito repellent. Still haven't used up the bottle bought for the trip to India in 2006, though.


So I got bitten a number of times. Hmmm, does this stuff have expiration dates? Anyways didn't think about it again until my mid-year review with my American supervisor (I have a German supervisor too but that's another story), when suddenly he remarked, "You're bleeding!" And so I was -- one of the bites had opened up. Is it age and thinning skin? But I jokingly attributed it to the high blood-pressure stress of the review. (We both knew it wasn't.)


But I remember the prevalence of Midland's mosquitoes in May or early June. My father's nemesis even more than mine.


I stepped out of the house one day in '67 or '66 or so and thought there was something wrong with the power transformer because I could hear it humming. Only problem was that the power lines and transformer were not on our street; digging deep into old memories I think they ran down the street on the other side of the block. In any event, I looked up and saw a huge cloud of mosquitoes hovering a dozen or two feet up. I don't remember what I did except to vacate the locale as quickly as I could.


Note to self: bring fresh mosquito repellent to the reunion. Don't want to bleed all over everyone.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Almost a Midlander

Yesterday I exchanged a series of e-mail chats with a colleague, the founder of the EIS Alliance in whose technical working group I participate, as a result of advising him that I will miss next week's Friday teleconference due to the reunion -- having missed last Friday's due to the camp-out and this Friday's due to conflicts with no less than four other concurrent meetings and teleconferences.


His responses regarding the reunion were interesting:


We did a combination of mailing (I am sure there are some of the people from your class who are not actively using email), email, and word of mouth. One of the critical things was an active campaign to locate people. ... Having done this before I am pretty seasoned...

Well, I am not too worried about this. I know nothing of prior MHS Class of '70 reunions, though I am sure there have been some. But as soon as I saw Nancy Nunemaker's name on the committee I knew it was going to be done right -- which is not putting any of the rest of you down, and I remember those of you I knew 42+ years ago, but Nancy in particular stands out in my memory.


In a later e-mail my colleague said:


At one point in my youth my family was going to move to Midland. My father worked for a division of Dow Chemical and a move back to the "source" was an option. I am sure it [the reunion] will be a lot of fun. ...

He almost became a Midlander; it is really a small world! But now I have a bit more assurance every time I ask myself, "Why am I putting myself through all this?" that this will be fun. To visit old haunts, to see what the old town has become, to meet long-lost friends again...


But I wonder, who is coming (and who isn't)? It's only the "40th", after all, and for folks who live in the general area, and/or whose close friendships were gained and lost on a continual basis, it's probably not a big deal.


'L' who lived across the street says she is coming, and it will be great to see her again; I known my wife will love her! girlsinger hasn't said but probably has her hands too full. And the trio (associated at least in memory) of friends from so long ago: Sidni, Sidney and Wendy... I have no idea.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Stars and mists

Seattle is a lousy place to live if you're a star-gazer. It was one of the things I learned soon after moving here (in my first three months I rarely even saw the sun). But I didn't miss it much because the same had been largely true in the SF Bay Area; I had mostly quit star-gazing as a result of being in California.


I hadn't thought about that until the just-finished camping trip in Oregon, near Crater Lake. When the stars came out that first evening even my only reaction was, "Oh... My... God...!" I had quite forgotten what the night sky could look like.


Here in Seattle the main issues are overcast skies, though in the weeks near the end of July/beginning of August --the dry point of the year-- they do clear and that's the time to observe astronomical phenomena, if there are any. The Perseids occur about that time and when I still had the pickup on occasion Kathy and I would pack blankets (summer evenings can get chilly here), head to some location not surrounded by the local 150' to 200' tall trees, and watch the show.


The tall trees in Seattle are the other problem, of course. From my back deck I have a relatively narrow view of the sky because of the tall cedar forest around us. (Our church's previous rector was the one to point out that it's the tall trees coupled with absence of snow that makes Seattle's winters SO very dark and gloomy; people often move away because they can't face another depressing winter here.)


A common factor to both the Bay Area and Seattle is a thing called "light pollution," but in my experience it's not only an esthetic issue: it can be quite dangerous.


I had never heard the term until I started studying for a "green buildings" accreditation and laughed at first, but it was serious and in fact there seem to be various organizations created around the concept that nowhere on Earth today can one see the sky the way everyone did just some 2000 years ago. There's the Dark Sky Initiative, , International Dark-Sky Association, and many more organizations using "Dark " and "Sky/Skies" in their name. I mention them collectively in my "energy efficient buildings" talks, and find that 5 to 20% of the audience has heard of them.


But the issue of light pollution goes further than that, and without going into the details I'll just say that it can be defined as illumination unnecessarily, indifferently or carelessly emitted beyond property boundaries.


Sometimes unavoidably: I stayed once in a hotel in the small Norwegian city of Tromsø, north of the Arctic Circle, and its hotel guest guide helpfully notes that the local ski trails are illuminated during the day. I guess at night you're on your own. (I was there for committee meetings in summer and report that although it is a pleasant town with the world's northernmost Mexican restaurant, I Do Not Like the midnight sun.)


So. Light pollution. In my previous job I became a year-round cycle-commuter. Really easy on the pocketbook, good for the body, and the hour-long bike ride that unavoidably included significant hill-climbs left me quite wide-awake and feeling pretty good on arrival at work (much more than a mere "I survived it again!").


The trouble was that I had to go several miles along a bike/pedestrian/park trail adjacent to a river. Not exactly a "free" river; its boundaries had been constrained a long time ago and was long known as the "Sammamish Slough" though developers of properties along call it the "Sammamish Waterway" and other grander things -- remember my complaint early in this blog about name inflation on the West Coast?


In any event, back to the point: In October and November the Slough produces fogs in the Sammamish Valley. Our first year there, 1993, we sometimes rode out on the trail to watch it rise. Almost spooky, like something from a horror movie (I hate horror movies!), thin tendrils of mist would rise from the river. And fork and spread, growing thicker every which way. Without our bike lights or moonlight we'd not see it but its totally silent spread was wonderful to see, until we were in the thick of it and had to cycle home along the trail.


And that was when I learned about light pollution. Coming home on that trail after work in the dark in winter, when the mist was up and rising, my perception of where the trail lay was confused by the mist reflecting warehouse parking-lot lights across the river, carelessly spreading their bright light far beyond their parking lot boundaries and blinding me if I chanced to look at them. Those lights illuminated the mists around me beyond the capabilities of my (mid-'90s) bicycle light to the point that the dark paths before me looked like "trail" but were in fact deceptive paths straight into the dark cold waters of the slough. From which escape in short order would have been difficult, thanks to the steep banks.


Light pollution.


I remember that even in Midland, some winter nights the neon glow in the sky told you exactly where the Midland Circle was.


But I also remember seeing the night sky (year-round) there like I've rarely seen it since.


I tried to get a photograph of the night sky from the camp near Crater Lake, but I am so unused to photographing "night sky" I have nothing. Maybe one of these years I will capture on "film" the Sammamish mists instead.


And maybe someday, somewhere else, I'll re-engage my interest in stargazing.


I heard the Aurora Borealis once, in Midland. I've heard it once since, here.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Pause

This blog will necessarily go quiet until at least Sunday and likely Monday. We 're off to a church campout in a state park down in Oregon, close to Crater Lake. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately?) there won't be Internet access, and even the nearest cellphone signal will be dozens of miles away.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

City Forest

A surprise, while looking at the Midland Mall, was to look a bit north on Yahoo Maps and see "City Forest" -- it's not on Google Maps. I had completely forgotten about City Forest, but suddenly I'm able to put a place to at least one memory: a cold evening walk in a (lighted) snowy wood near Christmastime, remembered vaguely as being somewhere north of town. I have a faint memory of music too, but that could be wrong. I wonder if it was a Youth Group outing.


I will have to visit to see if another memory fragment (tied to the acidic smell of soil underneath oaks) might also be sited there.


Oh my. Was Toboggan Run there back then?

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Midland Mall

I don't remember when the term "mall" became popular, though it was probably in the 70s. It was a little odd when booking the Midland Hampton Inn to see it listed as beinc across from the "Midland Mall" -- and more so when I looked it up and saw it's the old Midland Shopping Center (at least that's what I remember it was called). In memory it was not a large shopping center but big enough, with a department store that was the only other significant outlet for new paperbacks (my primary source was Woolworth's downtown).


Back then the other (western) side of Eastman Ave was all forest, but I see that's no more.


"Cinema Drive" hints that Midland must have a movie theater now.

Close call

A couple of weeks ago (hard to believe it was that recent) I was worried about a work conflict with the planned trip. It looks like I can rest easy.


A week ago yesterday the anticipated call for members for the new Smart Grid committee went out and within the hour I had submitted my application. Yesterday an e-mail confirming the receipt of all required forms arrived, and noted that the committee roster will be approved the first week of August. The committee will not be able to have its face-to-face kickoff meeting (in Atlanta) until well after I am back.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Fragments

Years ago I knew an expert in human memory. I wish I could consult on the little memories that suddenly come up now.


For example, this weekend I was composing an e-mail about some element of the upcoming trip and all of a sudden a scene pops up:


I'm standing in a neighbor's yard, watching as a very bright rainbow rises from somewhere off towards the left, arches into the sky and continues to grow down towards the right. The neighbor says, "God's painting in the sky with a big paintbrush" -- and that's exactly how it looked.

Who that neighbor was, I do not know. Other than his being a nice old man (very vague) I don't remember his name, his face, or anything else but this scene. I haven't recalled that scene in decades, if ever, and it seems to have no other context than "rainbows" and "place."


Odd. It has to arise from focusing on visiting after such a long time away. I wonder what other little fragments of memory are sitting there, so long forgotten?


Update: LOL, then there are the things I don't remember at all such as napping on top of the ice cream cart, which my mother says Fr. Elliot reported to her.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

St. John's Episcopal

It's a pity they've got only what appears to be an interim website up right now, because St. John's Episcopal's old website had a fair amount of information and photos. I'd check in on it every few years and see what was going on in my old church. Today there's nothing, though I could perhaps eventually find it in the Wayback Machine. But there's not enough time: some online tasks to be done, a journal article with fast-approaching deadline, and preparations for a church camping trip where I not only won't have Internet access (no live-blogging for the folks back home this year) but I won't even have cellphones access. Really roughing it this year!


So I guess Kathy will just to wait to see it when we visit in three weeks.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Orientation

I don't really quite believe in such things but it remains a fact (is it a fact if it's unprovable, or is it mere opinion? it's a fact that it's my opinion) that in Midland I had an innate sense of true, or maybe it was magnetic, north. Whatever it was, maybe even an unconscious detection of which side of trees the moss grew --and believe me, that Does Not Work here in the Pacific Northwet where moss will grow on everything that doesn't move and even on things that don't move enough, such as my old pickup during my cycle-commuting years.


That it might have been magnetic north was somewhat confirmed when we moved to California and I still had the sense but it was off by something like 15 degrees.


In Seattle, though, it's gone. Totally. As I learned one day in 1983 when I wound up lost in a semi-rural area north of here, under one of Seattle's horrid blank and blinding white skies, following a loop around several times. That is not supposed to be possible here, where the streets are numbered in a grid. For example, given the address 110xx NE 50th St, it's a brief exercise to parse it: NE of central Seattle, 110 streets to the East, 50 streets to the North, street runs east&west -- ah, probably in Kirkland's Houghton district. Not as colorful as Midland's system of street names (Ashman, Rodd, Main, Sturgeon Creek Parkway) but colorful just doesn't work well in major metropolitan areas. But I had to face the facts: the grid-numbering system broke down here, and I had NO internal sense of direction. (I broke out of the loop by taking some turns that seemed wrong until I reached an area where I was back on the grid.)


I don't expect to try my sense back in Midland. After all, I have Google Maps and VirtualGPS to aid me (despite my supervisors, I've resisted getting a corporate Crackberry with its in-built GPS -- and disabled cameras and memory-card slots and leashed to corporate e-mail). But I wonder: where can I buy a map of Midland today? I don't think my map printed in 1967, with elements that say it's much older than that, will be a good help. I know it won't show me where the Tridge is!


Update: It figures. Kathy's on it. If not a map store in downtown Seattle, then AAA on Colorado St. I don't even remember Colorado St.!

Friday, July 9, 2010

The Arlington Connection

Some years back I learned of a completely unsuspected connection to Midland that reaches back 55 years.


Pictured here are two of my oldest (and dearest) friends -- quite literally oldest because I met them when I was only three years old. We lived in Arlington VA then, the first place I remember though my family and I had already moved from Virginia to New Mexico to Michigan and back to Virginia. The area is called Fairlington and we lived in one of the rowhouses there. I cannot find a spot on a map that matches my memory and the photo or two I have, nor could I find it when I drove around it once so I guess it was demolished when the freeway or some nearby industry was built.


So, it's early morning and I'm out & about, and this man comes out of the rowhouse across the way, heading to work in military uniform.


I must have been a nuisance with my squirtgun that day because my mother had told me that the next time I squirted somebody with it, I had to give it to him.


Col. Fred didn't quite know what to make of this little boy who squirts him... and then hands him the squirtgun! But we became friends --or I sort of became the child he and Caroline never had-- and I have many happy memories since of the sawdust smell of his wood-working shop, his little gas-powered cars, trips on the Potomac on his boat, watching TV while Caroline prepared a snack, and the taste of Coca-Cola in the mid-50s (very different from today, but I sometimes still encounter the old taste overseas), and so very much more.


They came to visit us not long after we moved to Midland but I have few memories of it; most of the visiting was with my parents.


In California I lost touch (along with so many things) and did not find them again until the late 90s, thanks to the Internet, and Kathy and I stopped in Florida to visit for a couple of days on my way to meetings somewhere on the East Coast. Caroline passed away not too long after that, and Fred a few years later. They are now interred together in Arlington National Cemetery, no more than three miles from where we first met so long ago, and when I can I visit to pay my respects.


I flew to D.C. from Seattle to attend Fred's funeral. At lunch afterwards I learned what I'd never known: that Caroline's family was from the Bay City area and she has a relative (can't be a sister, maybe a niece?) who is a Midland realtor! I still have her card. If I remember correctly, at the time she lived just a few houses off my route to Eastlawn and MHS.


Gwen, you have e-mail.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

T - 21 days and counting

Three weeks from right now we should be pushing back from the gate in Salt Lake City (SLC) on our way to Detroit (DTW). We arrive pretty late so we'll just go to the hotel, just outside the airport, and pick up the car in the morning.


Because nothing starts until later in the day, we'll take a little time to visit my old haunts in the Detroit area (and besides, I'd promised pictures to a neighbor).


And here's where the fun starts. Pleasant Ridge, check: remember the address, house is still there. Clawson (only 5 miles away?!), check: looked at a map and remember the street and block, but the houses are all like. Lake Orion, bzzzt: remember nothing.


Or almost nothing. One street name sounds familiar though it's oriented 90 degrees from memory. I remember the block really well, though -- it's the downhill slope associated in memory with my direct-drive pedal-to-wheel bike, and later on a friend's way-too-big three-speed. Sheer terror can do that to you.


I checked with my parents and they don't remember the address either. We didn't reside in any of these places for long: the sad story of my misspent pre-Midland youth.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Local classmates

It was Kathy's idea to take a look at former classmates who are living in the Puget Sound region. She said there were several and sure enough, when I looked through the Classmates Today pages, there they were! And none of them all that far away; even Fox Island is under an hour's drive -- if traffic is light.

Nancy Sparta

Kris Morrisey

Dan Lossing

Katie Lang

Steve Taber

I'm embarrassed at recognizing only one... but... Katie Lang! Here in Seattle!!


It's amazing to look at the then & now photos; so many folks have hardly changed, except for the years. And the stories some photos tell: Joellen Snow a judge??


And some of us have really changed. Like Tom Widiger. And me. Oh well.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Restaurants

The Other Cultures, Other Ways posting got me thinking about "ethnic" restaurants in Midland. I don't remember any from my time there, though there is a faint memory of a "Chinese" restaurant that could equally well be wrong.


All I do remember is that for some special dinner my family went to Howard Johnson's, another time another restaurant on Saginaw Road next to a hotel that featured a sculpture that always comes to mind when I think of Rodin's "Fallen Caryatid," of which I learned through Heinlein's Stranger in a Strange Land (from the Central Intermediate library), though this hotel's statue had an intertwined couple with ruined heads. (Someone said the sculpture had been damaged in transit and badly repaired -- I have no idea.) I am betting it's long since gone.


In any event, a quick look online reveals the presence of many restaurants now. The Golden Arches on Saginaw are no longer the only fast-food outlet. And I see various Chinese and Indian restaurants, not to mention some chains I've only recently discovered as my travels begin to take me to the Midwest.


I wonder about the Indian: are they catering to the local Indian population, the way some Indian restaurants in Redmond do? Or are they modified to American tastes the way nearly all Chinese restaurants are? (I got a big lesson in "localization" last year when, due to the scarcity of restaurants in Helsinki, I ate at a couple of "American" restaurants and learned about the Finnish take on American food.)

Monday, July 5, 2010

It is SUCH a small world!

Per an e-mail invitation to the community e-mail list (well, one of three such lists but this was the broadest) Kathy & I went over to a nearby neighbor's BBQ/housewarming. She'd moved in last fall, actually, but it's been kind of.. well.. rainy ever since. As one of her housemates noted, "the good weather starts after July the 4th"; usually true -- we are headed into the "dry" season of July and August.


The household, owner and renters, turned out to be a nice group of folks (I'm trying not to say "kids") about our oldest daughter's age, or very roughly 30. Mentally sharp, too.


But it was kind of a shock when Kathy discovered early on that one of the women was a Michigander; upon the inevitable question "Where?" she responded, "Ferndale" and was surprised I knew where it is; few people have heard of it. But I lived for a short time a half-block away in Pleasant Ridge and attended Roosevelt Elementary in Ferndale -- the very same school she attended 30 years later.


This less than four years after we met a couple from Ferndale, immediately in front of us in line under the Eiffel Tower to buy tickets to go on up.


I have promised to return with pictures for her.

Booked at last!

Kathy booked our flights a couple of weeks ago, but we finished the rest today. A nice hotel by DTW airport after our arrival Thursday and before departure Monday, a car for three days, and a room at the Hampton Inn in Midland. All we have to do now is pack & go (and get the misplaced registration in the mail!).

Technical Town

Conversations both on this blog and backchannel have been telling me a lot more about Midland today -- unsurprisingly a rather different place than it was 42 years ago, but some things I might not have guessed.

One is the influx of (East) Indians. During my time Midland was completely "caucasian," and though I never knew much of Dow after it went into hard times sometime in the early 70s (one of my correspondents then reported that about 1/3 of the houses were up for sale) it seems it's recovered, doing well, and bringing in folks from other lands.

And Redmond (WA) seems to be a bit like Midland in this regard. When I moved here in 1983 from Silicon Valley I was moving into a technical backwater, again mostly "caucasian"; a very few small high-tech companies -- including Microsoft which was housed in a single building then. And Redmond was small; I'm sure it had more than the single stoplight I remember but there wasn't much here.

Of course Microsoft took off and helped spawn many other high-tech companies. And Redmond has grown; the old Workshop Tavern is gone (torn down without ever catching fire, amazing because the grease on the walls was so thick even in '83), more stoplights than I can count, an amazing proliferation lately of high-rises -- and a huge influx of people from elsewhere. A large housing development back of our facility is about half owned by Indians. And on the streets in town you'll readily hear Chinese, various Indian languages (I assume -- I cannot distinguish Hindi from the other 26 or so languages spoken in India) and Arabic.

This is going to be an interesting visit.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Drip, drip, BOOM!

In most years by July 4th we're fairly well into the dry portion of the year (peaking the end of July and beginning of August), but not this year. So far it's not quite up to 1993, the year we had exactly two weeks of summer: the last week of July and the first week of August, and rain the rest of the time, but we could be on course to match that. (This is unlike Midland summers, for which my main memory is of humidity.)

But it's an interesting contrast of sounds tonight between the constant nearby dripping of the roof gutters and the irregular fireworks explosions throughout the nearby woods.

TV, Earlybirds and Fireworks

After yesterday's discussion of dolls and toys on the way home from the theater in Woodinville, Kathy dug around a bit more in memory lane -- on the topic of TV. We watch little TV these days (for my part I may turn it on a couple of times a year for football games: New Year's, and the Superbowl if I'm home), but it was interesting to compare.

Because the European broadcast system (PAL) was different from the US (NTSC)* they did not get a TV until the moonshot. But she remarked that the state-run TV in Belgium and Sweden were different from each other, and both very different from the free-wheeling US. Their PAL set would not work in Iran (SECAM) so they did not have TV in Iran; this allowed her to devote all her time to becoming fluent in Farsi before she was to start school at the university.

For my part our reception in Midland was really poor until my father and I put up antennas; a huge yagi VHF array topped by a UHF array backed by a bowl-shaped reflector, all on a rotor on the roof. Although I gave up on TV news in 1981, just a year after I started watching it, as a boy I regularly watched a number of Saturday morning programs -- from Howdy Doodie and Captain Kangaroo to Beanie & Cecil and Supercar (with marionettes, remember that?). Later it was The Untouchables, and with family on Sunday evenings it was Bonanza, 60 Minutes and I forget what else. But I slowly drifted away until the early 2000s I was down to Star Trek:whichever and 60 Minutes, then... nothing.

But there was a curious point she dug up in the conversation. In our household I'm the early bird, the others are night owls. I'd thought it was a work habit: my Seattle commute was so bad until they widened the highway that I'd leave the house at 6:30 in order to get to work in 13 minutes rather than the 45 minutes it required an hour or so later.

But when I remembered getting up to watch the Saturday morning programs, turning on the TV and watching the test pattern followed by the national anthem to begin the day's broadcasts, she realized this was a lifelong thing.

I guess she's right. And perhaps this is one reason I don't watch fireworks much anymore. In Midland we all drove to some field just outside town (to the north if I recall) and watched them. I think they were sometime around 9 or 9:30 PM (can any Midlanders comment?). We live further north here in Seattle, with VERY long summer days, so they don't start fireworks until about 10:30 or so. And by then I just want to be in bed asleep. Kind of a pity because I have some high-speed flash-triggered capabilities (new firmware) on my camera I'd like to try out, but the cities have also been eliminating many of the old fireworks venues -- and who can blame them?

At least it's been raining a lot lately so I don't have to worry about somebody setting the giant cedar forest around us on fire tonight.


* There are/were three basic systems in use in the world, and a long time ago I ran across a rather funny description of the three. It went somethng like this: SECAM, invented by the French and used by the Soviets, gave you no control whatsoever over your set. PAL, used through most of Europe permitted you some control over your set's settings, but they were limited. NTSC (jokingly called "Never Twice the Same Color"), used in the U.S., gave you complete and total freedom, however you wanted to view it.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Triggers

A walk down memory lane can be a dicey thing sometimes, I've learned. You don't always know what will pop up and it might not always be happy.

I took Kathy to see "Toy Story 3" (3D) this afternoon -- after all, I'm home this entire weekend (including Monday), not packing to fly out somewhere for a few weeks, and for once our schedules happened to mesh. The movie was recommended backchannel by "The Mackster" as being the best of the three. I agree.

But when we left Kathy was fighting back tears because the closing scenes hit a trigger. It turns out she had two very special dolls, much the way Andy regards Woody in the movie, and she had planned to pass them down to her children. That dream ended in the warehouse fire in Iran (set by a revolutionary) in which her family quite literally lost everything but what they wore, and the contents of their suitcases. They were moving back to the U.S. -- where Kathy would soon become like me, a stranger in the strange land called California.

37 years she's borne this particular loss in silence, but the movie broke that silence. May this be her needed healing over the loss, one of several born of that Revolution.

And that makes me think about the daughter in college whose rag doll (Dolly) has been stitched back together so many times I think that all that's left are the repairs. She's had Dolly for longer than she can remember.

Me? All my childhood toys are long gone and mostly forgotten. Outside of a number of books and a few "Things of Science" 1960s monthly projects for kids, my longest-held possession is a little red "Tot" stapler I bought from Nugent's (is it still there?) on the Circle when I was about to start 7th grade at Central Intermediate.

Oh no. That cascades into more memories... does anyone else remember the "Keen" notebooks?

"Home again, home again / jiggity-jog"

Somehow that quote became a family tradition, started sometime back in Midland... Oops. Personal perspective reflected here -- "back in Midland" means "sometime in the '60s."

Anyways, this was always to be said at the end of a trip when we'd pulled into the driveway and turned off the engine, to wit: "We're home." We still say this, by the way.

It's actually been about 48 hours since I got home but the ton of business awaiting me (I still haven't cleared out the 'important' e-mail backlog, much less the rest) and exhaustion finally caught up with me. As best as I can tell I slept from about 9 PM to almost noon. The weather "helped" -- temperatures from the low 50s to 60F and rain. Cold even for Seattle, but I'm sure Midland is nothing like this right now.

I have a couple of new postings started, but they will have to wait.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Uh-oh

During dinner last night with a few colleagues and professional society executives, we discussed a new committee being formed for rapid development of a new technology. It had just been approved by the board of directors and the topics were various particulars on how to get it going as of yesterday, especially as one of my colleagues present will be the committee chair.

There is no doubt that my employer will want me involved; I've already been a contributor to the background work this committee will carry forward. I don't have any problem with that but the kickoff face-to-face meeting, which the chair reasonably wants to conduct as soon as possible, could be on August 2nd or 3rd. (The execs said it just isn't possible in July for procedural reasons.)

If it's the 2nd I have a problem -- that's the day I've booked my flight home from the reunion (using frequent-flier miles so it could be hard to change). If it's the 3rd I might make it by taking a red-eye out, in which case I am trashed the whole day (I speak from experience regarding this exact same route and situation just last year).

Although I probably already know at least most of what will be presented to the meeting, I should be there for political reasons.

Hopefully it will be pushed out a few days. I may know next week.